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Stayin’ Alive

By Eulalia Benejam Cobb

It’s important to do yoga on a regular basis. There is nothing like it for flexibility and balance. I should do it first thing in the morning, every morning.

Maintaining strength is so crucial as we age that I must add weight training to the yoga routine. Just a few minutes with weights or bands should do it.

And walking! Walking is the emperor of exercise, good for body, mind, and spirit. It’s best to walk outside, to benefit from the fresh air and negative ions. Ten thousand steps a day is a reasonable goal.

But what are yoga, weights, and walking without proper nutrition? Worse than nothing! The best exercise regimen in the world is a waste of time unless it is coupled with the right eating habits, which means consuming mostly plants, grown organically, optimally by oneself. (Gardening has a zillion health benefits. There are bacteria put in the soil by the universe simply to improve our mood.) I definitely need to eat more veggies.

Still, no matter how physically fit I become, I will crumble to bits without sufficient social contact. So what if I’m an introvert? That’s no excuse. I should get out there and join a club, start a committee, make things happen. That’s what it takes to stay young.

Studies show that people who go to church live longer….

But life is meaningless in the absence of absorbing, flow-inducing work that makes us feel that we still matter as a person, even in retirement. A hobby, preferably one necessitating many trips to Michael’s for supplies, will do the job. I certainly could use more flow in my life.

Challenging mental tasks such as playing chess, memorizing speeches out of Shakespeare, and learning Sanskrit are great, and heaven knows I could use them all. But historically our culture has ignored, to its peril, the benefits of handiwork. My poor bored hands are dying to do something other than tapping on the keyboard. Taking up calligraphy or learning to knit would make them happy. But for the ultimate hand-and-brain workout, there is nothing like playing a musical instrument. I must get my recorder out of its case and start playing again. A mere hour a day should keep me in decent form.

But here is the most important thing: meditation! Without it, even if I do all of the above I will still be a ragged, stressed-out mess. Twenty minutes a.m. and p.m. are good for starters, but really, anything under an hour is hardly worth it. There is nothing to it: one sits down in a quiet place, closes one’s eyes, and breathes. But like everything else, it has to be done every day.

Exercise, proper nutrition, social engagement, hobbies, mindfulness….With these and regular medical check-ups, blood tests, joint replacements, cataract surgeries, audiologist visits, and punctilious dental hygiene I will probably live forever.

The question is, will it be fun?

4 Responses

  1. I THINK I brushed my teeth last night, but I’m not sure.

    That’s my energy level.

    Your shoulds sound exhausting. Good luck with them. I’m surviving, and, interestingly enough (to me, anyway), have some very strong leg muscles. Why? Because when I need to stand for a bit (30 secs?), because the nerves in the back of my legs don’t work any more, I need to do a bent-knee sort of squat so I don’t fall over. That, and walking to the bathroom (about 20 steps each way), are my ‘exercise.’

    Keep moving.

    I’m waiting for the Long Covid researchers to finally get some results some of the rest of us post-viral illness victims can use. When I get more energy from that (IF?), I’ll do a lot of things I can’t do right now, and hope to ‘get in shape.’ Right now the whole idea is a joke, and I eat what I tolerate that doesn’t bite back, trying to stay as low-carb as possible because that gives me the clearest mind and no cravings.

    After 34 years of this nonsense, I credit the above to me still being semi-functional some days, and being able to write.

    It’s what I have. I’ll take it. And meanwhile enjoy reading about yours. Enhorabuena.

    1. Those shoulds ARE exhausting, and they cancel out the joys of living longer. I’m certainly not doing them!
      I’m with you in hoping that the attention to Long Covid will yield some benefits for us CFS sufferers.

  2. Wonderful.
    Was it George Burns who said “When I feel the urge to exercise, I li down and it passes.”?

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