Here are my shoes. Put them on for a minute and tell me what you would do.
Several months ago, the daughter of dear friends of ours got married.
Before the wedding (which was wonderful) I went on-line to the bridal registry and ordered a gift to be sent.
The store charged the item to our credit card. However, I have yet to hear from the bridal couple that they received the gift.
In my scale of social misdemeanors, neglecting to send thank you notes ranks just about at the bottom. I\’m sure I\’ve forgotten a few in my day. Nevertheless, I worry that something went wrong and the (not inconsequential) gift was never sent, or lost in the mail, or something.
Is there a statute of limitations for gift acknowledgments after a wedding? How long should one wait to hear—six months, a year? The couple are full-grown adults, which makes me think they know what to do, which makes me think they never got the gift.
Which is less bad: to take the chance that they think we forgot to give them a gift, or to make some clumsy inquiry of the couple or (even worse) their parents that will make them feel bad every time the use the object we got for them?
I\’m terribly tempted to just close my eyes and get on with my life. What would you do?